44 [F4M] #PacificNorthwest - Playful sub looking for a cheerful, 38+ D-type who enjoys bad jokes, cooking, and sharing the minutiae of daily life. MUST LOVE DINOSAURS. :-)
I’m a brat and I’ll bring a lot of joy and humor to your life, but you’ll need all your wits about you and a good sense of humor. :-) I’ll probably test your patience here and there, but I usually gauge moods pretty well and I’ll know when enough is enough. Mostly, I just like to play. :-) I’ll want us to discuss and share everything (though I wish to be mindful of privacy for ourselves and other partners), not just kink. I want to know all about you so I can contribute to your life in a positive way (or drive you up the wall; whatever is appropriate in the moment! ;-).
I’m seeking someone strong enough to maintain boundaries and rules while still being playful. I’m obedience oriented, and your structure and rules will give me a place and a purpose in your life (and mine). I enjoy being given tasks, and I like it when my Dom takes over some decisions and exerts control. I like getting to know someone inside out, and the deep communication and honesty that come with a D/s dynamic are something I treasure.
I want us to have a base of shared interests along with some shared goals and new things to try together, both kinky and mundane. My regular activities include board games (Hive is my favorite), cooking/baking, photography, hiking, and creative writing. I enjoy reading tremendously, both paper and audio. I love puzzles of all sorts, except crossword puzzles. Those give me fits. I have a very tiny “garden” in planters just outside the front door of my apartment. So far no luck on a giant pumpkin, but there’s always next year, right? :-) I enjoy exercise and being physically active, and I’d prefer you share this quality.
You should already feel like a whole person who is, overall, happy with your life or actively creating the life you want. You’re emotionally available and interested in a lasting, long-term connection based on mutual respect and enjoying each other’s company in many venues (like a hike or the cupcake place or a rope class).
Regarding the dinosaurs, if you haven’t taken this class on dinosaurs, you're missing out! It's fascinating. :-) There are two other classes there about dinosaurs that I hope to take soon (maybe with you?). I like to learn new things.
I’m solo poly, an introvert (this is not the same thing as shy or afraid of people), and demisexual, so things with me will likely go a bit slower than you’re used to. I can’t submit to anyone I don’t know and feel safe with. That will take a little time. For this reason, I prefer you also be solo poly or already in an open relationship of some sort and looking for an additional partner. The eventual 24/7 D/s dynamic elements between us will probably need be exclusive for me to be happy.
Hard limits of note: Humiliation/degradation. Hitting/impact play. Choking/breath play.
Since I take all this quite seriously and hope to forge a real, lasting connection, I prefer that you be somewhat nearby or perhaps already travel to this area frequently. A hybrid of online/real-life would work, but I will want to meet in person at least occasionally (and at first that's likely only to be for board games and pizza). I'm in the Pacific Northwest.
Something interesting happened to you yesterday. Right? :-) Maybe you could write and tell me what that was. I’d also like to know your favorite dinosaur and three things you think are essential to being a good Dom.